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writes:I had a one night stand got knocked up and moved in with him he doesnt love me or care he tells me he does but no sex no kissing has got physical I pay half bills and buy all food he gots out wiyh ex sleeps with her and others yet wants us to raise our baby together i have to hide when his family or freinds stop over what do i do help?
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reader, JuJuxo +, writes (23 February 2009):
honestly he is no good for you .. i know u dont wanna leave cause he fathers ur child but he could still father ur child without u being with him ..u should move on and find someone willing to love u .
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reader, loving arms  +, writes (22 February 2009):
I think you already know the answer mate. If you are hiding from his mum and sister, the nan and aunty of your baby then no-one knows he's going to be a dad. Doesn't that stike you as strange? Leave this person, now! what are you waiting for. It seems you have no feelings for him either so why waste your time and happiness here? Raising a baby isn't easy, but it's so much easier when you are happy. Good luck with the baby and life xx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 February 2009):
I think you have to sit down and talk about what relationship you both want.
It sounds to me like you act just like housemates, yet he's keeping you trapped as though you are his girlfriend.
And why should the mother of his child have to HIDE from his family. That makes no sense.
You can either be single and live together, or you can be single and move out. I really don't think a relationship with him is an option for you, there is nothing there.
He is saying what he thinks you want to hear, and he is doing what he thinks is the right thing. You have to take control, give him some options and discuss which is the right one.
Communicate!!
Good Luck!! xx
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