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writes:hi,i am a male of 26 yrs not married n my sister in law is 24 yrs.my sister in law is acting strange towards me. she is married to my elder brother. the problem is that she teases me very often which is embarrassing.the other day when i was going towards the laundry room to put my clothes for laundry, what i saw was she was sniffing my underwear n was doing some nonsense thing, i backed off and i'm irritated with her acts. she intentionally exposes her cleavages,navel, when there is no one at home she changes her dress keeping the doors opened n when all the family members sit for dinner she intentionally comes n sit beside me n rub my legs with her, she purposely touches me a lot. its such a disgusting that i am not able to tell anyone of her acts n many a times i have scolded her but she is not changing i think this women is immatured n does'nt know the value of the marriage.i have stopped admiring her n i'm confused n need your help.thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): Time to start insulting her. This is a form of sexual harassment and it's not pleasant for anyone to have to go through this. Take off the boxing gloves (so to say) and start treating her like an oversexed, irritating, disgusting specimen of the female race. If you find her with your underwear, then tell her she's sick and she makes you want to vomit. If she touches you, then shout loudly "keep you fucking hands to yourself". You have a right not to be pawed and groped by this silly woman. Say it loud and say it proud, that you dislike her, you find her sickening and you want her to keep her hands to herself. This should do the trick and it will draw your brothers attention to what she is doing and he will do the rest. Sexual harassment isn't funny, it's creepy, this woman is a disgusting.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (22 February 2009):
I think you have given her all the power. She is doing things because she probably finds in funny and the fact you won't speak up about it means she is completely in control.
Just start exposing her in the form of little jokes, it doesn't have to be a massive confrontation.
When she does it at the table just her leg away and say loudly in front of everything "Will you get off! I've told you to wait till he's (her husband's) asleep!" and laugh as though she's just teasing you and you are teasing back.
Or just bring up when talking about money that you could make a fortune as she flashes everyone with her boobs and you should start charging. If she denies that then just say "You do it to me ALL the time! It's hilarious!"
Your brother may start having words after this and she may realise that it's not fun any more.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2009): You two have had sex before? Sounds like you have.
Honestly, tell your wife. You clearly don't mind it all that much because this would have been put to a stop in a heartbeat by your wife, let me tell you!
Re-evaluate your relationship with both your wife and sister-in-law. Let your brother know too how much of a slut his wife is.
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reader, Auntie Stoned +, writes (22 February 2009):
Your SIL behaviour is inappropriate. It's time you get your own place. Do not tell your brother and family. That way it saves him embarrassment which may cause big storm in his marriage.
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reader, cian  +, writes (22 February 2009):
 I don't question if she loves your brother, however her advances are incorrect toward you. Whether or not you have done anything she perceives as flirting, it is important to confront the behaviour, despite how embarrassing it could be for you or her. You have noted you have done this, however, it seems to just be between you and her. I would suggest talking to your brother. Honesty, truly is the best policy. It will also stop the behaviour.In terms of catching her in your closet :P ... if you live with her, then perhaps its time to move! or, if your bro and his wife live with you, its time to cut the ties. It seems she may have some form of fetish or something. While this isn't unhealthy, its not appropriate when its your underwear, and not her husbands... if at all.
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