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*oey 2008
writes:Hey, This is just a general relationships question and I would like to hear people opinions..The question is... Shall I go looking for love? or let love find me?.... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2009): Hi Joey,Of course you can start to look for love. Love is in the air and if you know how to look, you can find everywhere and if you show your love, the love will find you more easy. Love is also something that you must learn, and only if you have felt the tension, the exciting feelings, the goosepimples,the extreme passion, the sweet words, the lovely touches etc you can recognize it. To love is a verb, and depending on your skills you will more quickly find and recognize the love (of your life). Before you start to look for love, it will help you if you know what you expect of the Love that you are looking for..If you are looking for 'the love of your life', I have some advises for you, based on learning by doing and trial and error and ofcourse my personal ideas:For the basic things, your expectations are not so quickly to high:*Same expectations of life (children, living-standard etc)*Excellent love/sex-life (both happy)*Harmony*mutual respect*able to fight and at the same time already repairing*positive minded person*bit same level of thinking*mutual friends (both should go along with each others friends)*cooking,dancing,sleeping togetherI also wanted to be able to horse-ride, ski, iceskate, sail, etc etc But I learned that it's almost impossible to find everyting in 1 person.I think that with your partner you must have harmony, an excellent sexlife, dance, eat and sleep together and other things you can do with a friend but it's great if you enjoy at least a few hobbies/sports together.If you know what you expect of 'the Love', and you spread/show this in words and actions, the love (of your life) will find you.You can find a bit more in my profile about my ideas about life.It would be nice if you give some response, because many people post questions and only a few respond to the answers.Thanks and goodluck
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