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writes:I really fancy the same person that my best friend fancies. Well, she says she is just friends with him but I'm pretty that she feels WAY more strongly about him than that. Thing is, she knew him before I did and she was the one who actually introduced us at school. I don't think he fancies her but I don't know how he feels about me!!!!! Should I ask him out and risk hurting my best friend???
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reader, mario4hustle  +, writes (22 February 2009):
why not ask him out, you should not miss out just because she is too afraid to speak up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2009): No, you should talk to your friend about it, but I must warn you even if she says it's okay it probably won't be.
You need friends more than you need boys there'll always be other boys, it is never worth risking hurting a friend ever, there'll be plenty of boys that will hurt you and it's friends that will be there to pick you up.
No boy is worth risking a great friendship.
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