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writes:I am 30 years old and never had a boyfriend and I don't know how to get one. At this stage giving is my only option. It's very unfair why I have no luck at all. The guys have it easier. I am shy and quiet with a weight problem.
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reader, soul dharma  +, writes (20 August 2010):
i feel that i am the unluckiest guy in the world i havent had a relationship now for over 20 years . ive come to the conclusion that this is out of my hands . and i cannot do anything about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009): you're not alone in this world. Even me having the same problem Im now 27 and don't have or never been into relationship... I think I was curse or something. haaayyy
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2009): joining clubs doesn,t always work.i join clubs before guys haven,t insulted me i have been there for years i have never been asked out once i was there 5 years.i am sick of been single and lonely
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reader, MonksDaBomb  +, writes (22 February 2009):
 I agree with Emily - attitude is everything. Of course I shouldn't be talking as I have had one boyfriend and that was back in 7th grade - I'm now 25 (LOL). And your weight has nothing to do with it. You just have to feel sexy and confident about yourself. I'm starting to wear my hair differently and wear tighter clothes (not too tight that people would think I'm a slut, but clothes that show off my figure a bit more).
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 February 2009):
Get out there, meet people, meet guys and talk to them.
Your weight will not have anything to do with it. Attitude is everything. Be approachable and chat to guys when they are introduced to you.
If you are quiet and shy it will seem like you don't want to talk so guys will leave you alone.
Make new friends and the rest will come from there. Join clubs / groups / volunteer / anything and be more social.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2009): Join some sort of club, then you can make friends and gradually get closer to them and then ask them out?
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