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Will this always hurt her?

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Question - (22 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 February 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *yan j writes:

hiya :)

well am 14 and i dont really no how to say this so here goes.......

my gf of 2 and a half months is 15 and im 14, we have played around and stuff but ive never actually fingered her. i was wondering if i fingered her properly would it still hurt her if i did it again. it might sound a stupid question but id love an answer.

thank you so much for reading :)

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A male reader, cian Canada +, writes (22 February 2009):

cian agony auntIf it hurt her the first time, that is normal.

It could also hurt her subsequent times.

Assuming she was a virgin this time, you would have ruptured her hymen. It could also have bled. But yes, that would hurt her. So would the stretching she would experience if it was the first time having anything in her.

Over time, the pain will subside, but it might be the 8th, 9th, 10th, etc. time.

If you take it further, use protection, and be responsible.

Otherwise, keep exploring your sexuality. Your old enough in my opinion. :)

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