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Want to send ex bf a flirty birthday message that doesn't push it too far. Any ideas?

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Question - (22 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 February 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

It's my ex's birthday on February 25th, and I still really like him (after 5 years). We met up recently after not seeing eachother for 5 years, and my friend thought he was still fond of me.

Anyway, I usually give him a happy birthday text! The thing is, I really don't know what to write.

I want to be friendly, but I want to have a bit of a flirt in it aswell.. but not be too flirty and scare him off! My friend suggested "I would give you birthday bumps" but I thought that might be a bit cheesy and pushing it too far. What do you guys think?

I was wondering if anyone has any flirty things I could say in this happy birthday text? (We dont live near eachother anymore, hence the break up)

So far, I've got "Happy Birthday, Have a beer for me! x"

Any ideas on what flirty things to write would be much appreciated. Sorry if it's abit of a daft question!

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (22 February 2009):

TasteofIndia agony auntI like your "Happy Birthday, Have a beer for me! x". It's not too forward, but it's still just flirty enough to let him know you may be interested. Don't be too outright, you will come off desperate. Leave him wanting more and curious about if you like him or not.

Good luck!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2009):

first of all, dont even try this if he is with someone.

second of all, u do relize u seem desprite right now, and that is what he is going to think to

sometimes it just better to move on, and just not say anything, trust me sweety-Victora

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