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writes:what is there to do when you love someone like you've never loved anyone before and that person does not correspond you and is with someone else and you feel like you got no chance and you've done all you can? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009): There's nothing more to do - but let her go. If she isn't corresponding with you she is clearly letting you know she is happy with her relationship and doesn't want you. I think you should stop hanging around her all together - why torture yourself and cause her/her man uncomfortability.
Make new friends, get some new hobbies, move forward and look for new adventures - this will hurt now and for a while, but you'll be OK and happy again soon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2009): ok, make the best you can, if she still talks to you, you can't (can not) talk about being sad, it is not a topic, and you can't *insert slap here* be depressed when your with her. you have to be in the moment, don't do anything you plan to do, and act on the moment your with her. you'll have fun. she'll have fun. just talk. don't think, just do.
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (22 February 2009):
 I agree with Starfish. Just be stoked she is happy. Be her friend, be the guy that she can talk to about anything without making her feel uncomfertable. It's rare these days. Who knows what the future holds....May I ask why she is so "untouchable"?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2009): Just move on.You've given your best shot, and he simply just isn't that into you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2009): well you could become a song writer? they make money from such things.
Failing that be proud of yourself for trying. Be pleased that someone you love is happy - even if its not you that they are happy with. By being happy you are showing your love for them.
If you aren't pleased she is happy, then did you love her?
What you are feeling is hurt and wounded. Get over it. the world goes on and you will love again. (especially if you make a million from the song you can now pen)
Star.x.
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