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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been "hooking" up with this guy for a little over a year now, and before I never really thought a relationship would work between us and just enjoyed merely having sex with him. Lately he hasn't been returning my usual late night calls and text and only wants to get together when it's convenient for him. That ordinarily would never have bothered me, but now I think I actually like him and it's driving me crazy that he only calls when he wants to have sex and ignores my calls when I just want to get laid!Should I tell him how I feel? Or just let this go
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reader, AllisonDro +, writes (23 February 2009):
you're giving him everything he could want: sex whenever he wants without an actual relationship. why would he want anything more? you are a booty call
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reader, gumbbo  +, writes (22 February 2009):
Sadly i doubt it would matter to him how you felt. He sees you as someone to have sex with, that will never change. If i were you i'd get out of this your feeling will grow and you will get hurt. When a women offers nothing but sex to a man, thats what he will see her as.
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (22 February 2009):
 I had a thing for a guy that treated me like that. It was awful. Tell him how you feel, see what happens. In my situation, I found out that I wasnt the only girl he was doing that to, and I was so upset that he put me in danger for catching an STD, that I got over him quick. You probably will too.
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