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We're not financially ready, but I really want a baby!

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Question - (22 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 February 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *orever_His writes:

So my boyfriend and I got back together after a very long 2 1/2 month split. He came back, and we are now happier than before. I love this guy with all of my heart, and we are waiting patiently for the right time to get married. Something else I want is a baby with him. I'm nearly 21 and he's 26, and he already has one child. Financially we are not ready for a baby, but everyone around us has babies and I just want one. As crazy as it sounds, I'm not sure when the best time to try for a baby is. I have read 7 days before your period, but I've also ready 7 days after. I would like to have one with him soon, not to trap him or anything, but we've already talked about great it would be to share a child together. Everytime we have sex, it is unprotected and cums inside of me pretty much every time. So in that, could anyone give some advice as to when would be the best time to try for a baby?

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A female reader, sappygirl United States +, writes (22 February 2009):

sappygirl agony auntI know you don't want to hear this but if you are not financially ready, this will bring strain to the relationship if you have a baby. As a woman, our clock is ticking and we want to have a child with the man we love so that we can be with them forever.

However, i must warn you. You are still so young. As someone who's been there and done that... the best thing you can do with your life now is concentrate on your careeer, making money and creating a foundation for your baby. The less stress you have the better chance you have of your relationship making it.

but i'm pretty sure you don't want to hear that.

So if you really want a baby..i hear it's 14 days after your period. you can also buy an ovulaton kit to know when you ovulate

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