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writes:My boyfriend is 18 and experienced and I'm 15 and still a virgin, but we've touched and I had oral for the first time with him and our sex life seems great but he can get hard, but cum with me. I mean I can get him hard in less than 2 minutes but no matter if I give him a handjob or head, he won't cum!!!I've talked to him about it and he just says I don't know but I think it's just he's not that turned on with me, or I'm not giving him enough pleasure.Is there something I can do to make him cum? cuz I feel like I'm doing something wrong with him, since he's my first sexual partner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009): I find it absolutely ridiculous people are branding the 18 year old a pedophile when their age difference is 3 years apart. It doesn't make a person automatically an adult from 17 to 18. How do you measure the kid's maturity with such a tiny age difference? The law caters to a general idea to protect people. It is not accurate to say that the 18 year old is a pedophile just because the girl is a year under the minimum age for sexual activities. What if the guy is 17? Does it make a lot more right for him to engage in sexual activities with a 15 year old? What if the 18 year old is having sexual activities with a 16 year old? That one year difference makes THAT much of a difference?
Here's something for you all to think about, since you base what is a pedophile based on the misinformed notion that once a person hits 18, s/he is considered an adult automatically...
In some states in the USA, the minimum age is as low as 14 to as high as 18. Oddly, the minimum age for traveling citizens is age 12.
ANYWAY... As for answering OP:
1) Find out what your state's minimum age for sexual activity is. If you're too young, wait until you're the 'right' age. You don't want to get yourself nor your boyfriend in trouble. Try this for starters:
http://www.avert.org/aofconsent.htm - find a second source to reconfirm this.
2) Once that is out of the way, I cannot stress this enough: SEX = COMMUNICATION. So, communicate with him.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (22 February 2009):
 Yeah I agree with these guys I think the realisation that he's a paedophile puts him off.
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (22 February 2009):
 Pump the brakes, kid! I hate to judge, but he is way too old for you. Not only could he go to jail for what he is doing to and with you, but the social penalties are greatest for you! You need to be with a boy your own age who you can take things slow with.
Now, if your parents are O.K. with this relationship, then my sexual advice is that some guys achieve climax easier with vaginal penetration. But if this 18 yr old doesn't even know what's up with his little soldier, then I wouldn't waste my time on someone who is that out of touch with his sexual desires. Maybe he is a good guy, and he's waiting for you to become of legal age before he burdens you with that kind of pressure, and that's why he keeps saying "I don't know", but my advice is to get out now! Find yourself a nice 16 yr old, and take things easy! You are already more experienced than any 15 yr old needs to be, in my opinion. Trust me, I lost it at 15, and you don't get a second chance.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (22 February 2009):
 You need to talk to him about why this is happening because what you are doing is fine! He is turned on by you, this shows as he gets hard. Keep going with what you are doing! X
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