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30-35,
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writes:Hey Umm, i have a huge problem. umm theres this guy at school, i really like him, hes nice and kinda shy. well me and my friends started hanging out with him and his friends. It seems like he likes me too, but heres the thing last week he got a girlfriend, people tell me he was forced into the relationship but idk. hes still with her and i stopped talking to him cuz i dnt want her to freak. but hes always looking at me and when i look at him he grins and looks away, also when he walks with his girlfriend he holds her hand but wen he sees me he lets go, and then grabs her hand again. im confused i dont know what to do HELP.
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reader, AlextheOdd +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Well if you have the guts, confront him. Maybe start out as a 'hay how are you doing? hows life? hows your relationship going?' don't try to come off as you are jealous or interested in him or else he might leave his girlfriend in a heartbeat. Don't dig in his business to much, but try to find out how he met her; if he seems really interested in this girl his grins at you may just be a friendly 'hello' or he may be doing this because he thinks you like him and he doesn't want to make you jealous; he wants you to think he is still available for you.
Goodluck, I hope you find out whats going on!
-A
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