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Is it weird that I'm a guy who likes to use dildos on himself when I'm with my girlfriend?

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Question - (22 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 June 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, *ario4hustle writes:

for some reason i allowed my girlfriend to finger my anus during sex and now i love it but i feel as if im turning into a pervert. i first wandered was i bi but i have no interest in guys whatsoever. however i will admit to enjoying shemale porn. but i chunk this up to a wild sex drive. now when i masturbate, i will finger myself and secretly wish my girlfriend was using a strap-on or a dildo on me but i am afraid she will think i am on the DL. reguardless if she is into the strap-on or dildo, i still plan to use it with another girl if i cant get her to jump on board. do you think im weird or just open minded. p.s. ----- my feelings aren`t easily hurt so i would appreciate your real opinion.

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A female reader, LacyLace United States +, writes (17 June 2009):

LacyLace agony auntits not weird. my bf likes it too. ;)

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A female reader, loving arms United Kingdom +, writes (22 February 2009):

i agree with everyone else. You are not hurting anyone so carry on. As for trying things with a new girl please don't. Stick with your girlfriend, maybe you could introduce a dildo into your love making for her and eventually it'll be her idea to use it on you. She sounds adventerous i think she'll suggest it soon enough.

Good luck x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2009):

Don't worry about it. Your anus is highly erotic, particularly if you stimulate your prostate -- really powerful orgasms. I had an experienced GF at one time, and she would go things to me to the point I'd cum so hard, I'd hit the ceiling, literally. I miss her.:( Explore your sexuality with your GF. Enjoy it. It doesn't last forever.

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