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Does he just want anyone or does he genuinely want me?

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Question - (22 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 February 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok so I broke up with my bf but later on in the day i felt so horrible like a part of me was ripped away. So the next day at school he was being kinda mean to me (i can understand that) And as I was walking to class one of his ex gf's tapped me on the shoulder and started asking me questions about the breakup. Ive talked to her before I even knew my ex but why would he talk to her about us breaking up, plus he lied and told her i said he broke up with me because i had commitment issues. So anyways later on that day he started talking to me and we ended up getting back together. But one thing is stuck in my head. He said if I said "no" it wouldnt matter because he just "wanted someone" I like him and i did regret breaking up with him but its like if it wasnt me it would be another girl because he just wants a "companion" to be with. Its not like he likes me and no one else right. And he has a reputation about having a lot of gf's. Im so confused, because I think like I said that if he wasnt going out with me it would have just been any other girl. shouldnt i feel like im the only one for him?

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A female reader, OhEmGerardway United States +, writes (22 February 2009):

OhEmGerardway agony auntGuys just like to feel like they have someone there, doesn't really matter who it is.

But just know that he came back to YOU, not just any girl, so he obviously does have stronger feelings for you.

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A male reader, massdestruction3 United States +, writes (22 February 2009):

massdestruction3 agony auntGet somebody you love unless your fine with being with a player. He sounds like an asshole and liar and they always turn up breaking your hearts.

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