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What's the next step?

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Question - (22 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 February 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have just got back from spending a couple of hours with the girl I like this afternoon. Only our second one to one meeting. A bit longer than the first, which just over an hour and a quarter. This was just over two hours.

I had a lovely time and am getting a good feeling about the possibility of having something more than friendship here.

I am not sure though what the next step should be. I want to do something or suggest something that would be more than just meeting in a way that could just as easily be a strictly "as friends" manner.

At the same time I don't want to do anything too direct.

What would be an appropriate suggestion? I am thinking of just asking her to join me for a walk and then go for a meal afterwards. Would that do?

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A male reader, Ted-ster United States +, writes (22 February 2009):

Take it upa notch -- say you have great tickets to X, or take her to see great views of Y (make a picnic with wine), or make her a dinner (women love that when a guy makes a dinner -- say you're trying something new). Have fun.

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