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30-35,
*coot
writes:A few weeks ago, a girl I liked a lot, kept asking me to buy her flowers. I was still under her influence because I liked her a lot. There was a new girl I liked, but at the time nothing had happened. Even though this other girl had a boyfriend she kept asking me to buy her flowers, because we were friends I thought I would. I left the flowers for the girl who was asking me, while I was on the way to meet the newer girl. That night something happened with the newer girl and I forgot about the old girl. The newer girl and the old girl did know each other, and the newer girl knew the old girl had been causing me problems by trying to influence me.The night after I left the old girl flowers, the newer girl said she that it better not have been me that left the old girl flowers (I left them anoymously) Now I'm with the newer girl. But I feel guilty about leaving the other girl flowers even though the newer girl said I shouldn't leave her flowers, because then the older girl is winning.(the older girl didn't want me to move on and subtly tried to keep me wanting her) I feel guilty, Should I tell the newer girl or is it not a big deal any more now that I know myself I have definitely moved on? What should I do?
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reader, massdestruction3  +, writes (22 February 2009):
 tell her and tell her your sorry, if she doesn't take that then you shouldnt be with her
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reader, MoonlightDrive70 +, writes (22 February 2009):
 Hmmm, I would tell her man, if you are wary of how the 'older' girl was seemingly influencing/manipulating your behaviour you dont wanna be forced to lie cos of the newer girl. Get it out the way now cos if the other girl feels like it she can tell her any time you want and youdont wanna lose a long term girlfriend over something so stupid.
send less flowers, more texts in future
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2009): dont tell her, and if the older girl ask, u say it wasnt u!!!
dont tell anyone that it was u,and i mean NO ONE, and u might make it out alive and in one peice, but this only works if u dont like the older girl. cuz if u like both, then ur screwed, and need to figure out what u want first.
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