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anonymous
writes: Hello again everyone, i have a bit of a query. okays i have 36a breasts and i was wondering about ways to make them look sexier and more womanly, just to make me feel better about myself, i always thought they were huge when i was growing up but now i feel flat chested and ugly. i also get spots on my breasts, is this normal, is there anything i can do to make them fade?... please help i've lost all my confidence.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 February 2009):
Lace is very in this season, get something with a bit of extra floof around the chest area.
Also, halterneck tops, I have big boobs and can't wear them without looking ridiculous, so I am very jealous of how great you are going to look in them.
Look at pics of Keira Knightly and see how she uses what she has and looks Amazing.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, saltwater +, writes (22 February 2009):
Hi there....you shouldn't have to lose all of your confidence because of the perception of your own breasts.
After all, they're only breasts. And they will only be seen "in the flesh" by hopefully only a few -- maybe even just one -- special person. And they won't care what they look like, be they big or small.
They are certainly more aspects to a woman that make her appear womanly than the appearance of her breasts; personal attitude is one. And having a bad attitude against your own breasts is not a good aspect! :-)
For everyday use, I'm sure there are bras that are suitable for you.
Love your breasts, they're unique to you.
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reader, bettynotsweaty +, writes (22 February 2009):
get properly fitted.
i find balconette bras help, but experiment.
padding is a girls best friend, and honestly no-one will notice.
high necks (to hide spots) with lots of ruffles (to make boobs look bigger). with short skirts - focus on another attribute, or a lower back.
i still get boob spots - use a facewash, don't pick, and try concealer if you want. if they scar or are really bad, see your gp they can try all kinds of things.
boobs may grow more (mine did), and even if they don't most of the guys i meet say that more than a handful is a waste - be glad you will never get back pain, or that small boobs wont sag as much when your old. and that guys will actually look at your face.
do not, under any circumstances, think about surgery until you are at least 18-19, and even then you would be a muppet
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