A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm inviting a very close female friend to my flat soon. Plan is she'll stay night here, we'll be drinkin and catchin up on things as i'm at uni far and never see her. I would like to initiate something physical with her that night, i'm not even sure about sex, just making out would be a start but i'm not sure how.Well i do but its very risky coz she's my close friend. How can i test the waters?I do talk to her about 2-3times on phone a week each call always at least an hour. I don't think she likes me otherwise i would of picked up the signs.Watchin a film together is just not somethin we would do, we're like non stop talkers laughin at each other stories. Hope someone can help me. Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 February 2009):
If it's going to happen then it will. This is one of those situations where you will either have a great time but not feel the vibe and that she just wants to be mates OR, the moment will just happen and you'll be cuddled up and your eyes will meet and it will go from there.
Wait for the moment.
If you try and hint at it now, she may get nervous, suspect the whole invitation to stay over is a ploy to use her for sex and back off.
I really advise that unless you want to be friends with benefits you DO NOT have sex on the first night you get together. Hug her and hold her and kiss her and tell her you don't want to ruin it by going too fast.
Good Luck!! xx
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