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30-35,
*irateJosh
writes:It all started in secondary school. A girl who I was very fond of, asked me out after months of flirting. Stupidly I said no. I said no because I was afraid, and scared, after all she is in the year above. But during my final year of secondary school, and during the summer holidays, we started talking again, until November when she asked me out again. I was over the moon, ecstatic that I'd been given a second chance and I took it.We got on great, we never argued, we never fell out or anything. She had her job, and I had my job and education and we managed to cope. Until the other day that she dropped the bombshell on me. That she no longer wanted to be in a relationship, not with me, not with anyone.For the whole week building up to this bomb shell, I hadn't seen her at all, after all every time I tried to see her, she declined as she was ill with flu. She did it by text, late at night, and I asked her to think about it, and to sleep on it. In the morning I got the text message, saying her mind was set. Later that day I managed to get her to come on MSN, to talk, as she wouldn't probably see me in person, to talk it over. We spoke, I asked if we could try again, when she was ready, she seemed to like the idea, but didn't know when it would be or how long it would take. Deep down, I have a thought in the back of mind, saying that this won't happen. This girl is the one I love, and would do anything to get her back, I can't move on, if I went out with someone else, all I would think about is her. I can't sleep at night thinking about all the good times we spent with each other. Her best mates and sister, seem to think that she will get back with me, as were happy together, we didn't have a problem with one another at all. I really do, love her.What do you think? What should I do?Thanks, Josh.
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reader, PirateJosh +, writes (2 February 2009):
PirateJosh is verified as being by the original poster of the question The reason being was she didnt want a relationship at the moment, and the only thing which was an issue, is that we didnt get much time to spend together due to work etc, and did tell i could make time.
Meeting up, would probably cause more harm than good, as i dont think itd make her feel any better.
Thanks for the help! It did spark ideas for me to try though :) 3
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2009): Ask her why she broke up with you. Try to work on anything thats been troubling her.
You said she "probably" would'nt meet up.... ask her!!! Get the sparks flying again! Embrace your love.
All the best xx
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