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writes:If your wife doesn't give you her my space/page address do you think that is wrong or what? Reply to this Question
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reader, 817javi +, writes (1 February 2009):
I belive that no she shouldn't hide anything from you. If she does you better belive that she is hiding something from you. If you were hiding your myspace or whatever how would she treat you. When you are married your suppose to be one. All this other stuff doesn't matter like her own money friends and etc. Yes everyone needs there space but if you can't trust each other and have to hide things like that in front of your face. Then what kind of marriage do you have?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): It is just a MySpace account, it shouldn't matter.Your marrige should mean more then a MySpace page to the both of you. Both of you should be stronger then whatever she does on a MySpace page.She should truthfully tell you what she does on her MySpace page, and you should trust her enough to believe what she tells you.But, if you really worried, then ask her. She should show it to you, if you are really that upset about it.Because, your marrige should mean more to her then her MySpace page. lol
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (1 February 2009):
it's not wrong at all. just because she is your wife, does not mean you own her and have to know all of her business. alot of women have secretes that a man will never find out. she should have her own email,my space,friends,money,etc. you shouldn't feel the need to be checking up her social pages or anything else. it's not fair, she needs some privacy.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 February 2009):
I am the first to say that as a wife she should have her own money / friends of both sexes / life / privacy and everything else, but I would never actively hide something from my husband, because I never have anything TO hide. I sometimes don't tell him about things because they aren't relevant to him or his life, but refusing to let you see a profile page is going a bit far.
How did you find out about it and how did you react when you found out?
If you kicked up a fuss and DEMANDED to see what was on there, she may have got defensive and stood her ground... this is fair enough.
Talk to her calmly about how it makes you feel and how you feel rejected / hurt by her lack of openness. Remind her how much you love her.
Good Luck!! xx
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