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writes:Hii.. I am 29 year old, married and have 2 kids. when i got married i was only 18.. my husband was 37.. somehow we happened to live but i was not happy in that life. i always used to search for something like soul mate.. I don't like man mostly. I like only to be close with womens all the time.. 5 yrs ago i met a girl in chat she was only 17 then i was 24 something.. we became very good friends and even more closer.. i really felt happy and got something which i have searched for.. after 2 yrs spending in chat and internet with her.. we came to meet in reality.. Everything went so fine.. She was so happy with me and i was happy.. after 5 yrs of being together now she left me.. now i am 29 and she 22.. she found somebody better then me. I understand also that.. but its hard for me to spend my days without her.. I am going down.. I hope you could me some guidence
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reader, rcn  +, writes (3 February 2009):
 Let's break this down a little bit. You don't like men, but you like women, and you're married to a man with two kids? What I'm wondering, is it his behavior, lack of intimacy, romance that you were not getting. Apparently at one time you liked him, so I'm trying to see if your issues is not just liking the same sex, but something deeper going on in your marriage to be unhappy.
Also, what makes you think this other women is better than you? She made a choice to be with this other girl. That doesn't mean she's better than you. You are the only you there is. Your an individual, so you're not any less than anyone else.
You said you were happy, then you weren't, so the main issue here is building yourself. I'm not talking about marital issues, there are sense of self issues. The secret to having a good life and relationships is how you feel about yourself. You can't relay on someone else to make you happy. No one really can (as a whole). Try building your personal happiness in just being who you are, then in a relationship you'll be sharing your happiness with someone, instead of relying on them to make you happy and fill voids you're missing
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