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writes:I am 16 years old,I just recently lost my virginity about 4 weeks ago.I have a few questions. While me and my bf were having intercourse the condom came off. It is my fault for not stopping him, we kept on having intercourse without the condom for a while, several times he stop inside me. Then after a while he put on another condom and within 5 or 10 min. it CAME just a little on the condom. He said that he didn't cume on me when he was doing it without it.. Who knows?? Two days later i got my period but i was not suppose to get it until 2 or 3 weeks then it stopped. I took 2 pregnancy test they both were negative but my friends said that it was to early and that i should wait at least a month is that true?Also i am a dancer at my school we do alot of stuff (leaps, splits, jumping, running) if im pregnant would it affect the baby? Lately when im rehersing i get really tierd,and all i want to do is sleep i use the bathroom more than i use to i've always been emotional but now im even more emotional. Am I hallucinating or is there a possibility of me being pregnant? can you help...
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reader, Firefighter's Wife 09 +, writes (1 February 2009):
I am prego and I was supposed to have my period on Sept 26 but I didn't start on the 28th I took a cheap ass test and it was positive. So just wait a day or two after you are supposed to have your cycle to test! The tell tale sign that tipped me off was how badly my breasts hurt, worse than any PMS ever!
The crappy thing about losing your virginity is what I call the curse of the first! Every girl I know even the ones who used a condom and birth control all get scared they are pregnant! So it could be like the other aunts said you are so worried about it and scared that you messed up that your mind is playing tricks on you! It happens to the best of us!
If you are prego, get help from the right people and think about all your choices! Don't jump the gun on anything and regret it later!dancing shouldn't hurt the baby as long as its not serious high impact or anything! Exercise is great for a pregnant body! It keeps it strong enough to carry and deliver the baby. Plus its a lot easier to get your shape back afterwards!
Good luck babe! I hope everything works out for you! You can email me if you need anything at all!
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reader, B.I.B +, writes (1 February 2009):
 Yes there is a big possibility u could be pregnant and yes u should wait a month then take a pregnancy test because it is way to early for the egg to fertilize....to be on the safe side take a 2 pregnancy test a month later.........if you had your period make sure its not pink or brownish spotting if it is that's called implantation bleeding............much love ....hope your not pregnant
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reader, MommyOfOne +, writes (1 February 2009):
 You said you had your period after this happened? Have you had sex since you had your last period, then, probably not.
I would go to a free clinic in your area and ask for a blood test. If your not, consider yourself lucky, and when your there, ask to be put on birth control. And always make sure he has a condom on. At all times! Don't be stupid!
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reader, loving me +, writes (1 February 2009):
I think at 16 you shouldn't be worried about having sex or a boyfriend. And if he really likes you he wouldn't pressure you. And a child is a big responsibilty your life changes. And at that age you have to give up a lot to raise a child. So if your not pregnant. Get on birthcontrol or wait. And if you are raise your child and achieve your goals. Blessings to you!
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