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I'm worried just in case I'm not fully developed...

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Question - (1 February 2009) 9 Answers - (Newest, 3 February 2009)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok this might be a stupid topic but it took all my courage to ask this question.

I'm seeing this girl, we're great mates and I really love her with my heart, she keeps trying sexual advances on me and well I'm kinda scared in case my penis isn't big enough, I know it's a stupid question but I measured it when erect and it's 3 inches.

I know if she loves me then it don't matter but still I'm scared, I'm 16 and well for the ladies this might not be nice to hear but when my penis is erect my foreskin don't go back, in other words I can't see the head of my penis, if this is a sickly question I'm sorry but I'm worried just in case I'm not fully developed or I'm just small. I know it's stupid to ask but could someone please advise?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2009):

The average female's vagina is only 3-5 inches deep, and besides we have the most nerve endings in the outermost third anyway so it doesnt matter believe me 3 inches is more than adequate

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A male reader, ItsTotallyNormal United States +, writes (2 February 2009):

ItsTotallyNormal agony aunti'd have to agree with MyDestiny, don't worry bout it, I'm 17 and to get personal about it too, i was about 4 1/2 inches at 16 since then i've grown to a little over 6 inches, you'll most likely than not, still have more growing to do

reading sources from online says that you aren't "FULLY" grown till you're about 19, you still have 3 years of puberty, n for me i have a little more than a year (considering my birthday is coming up at the end of April) it may not seem like a lot of time to grow, but it will, hopefully =/

i mean by the way, size really doesn't matter, it really should be a fact, unless your like 1 inch and it's actually physically impossible to just have SEX but, if you have a 3 inch or 4 incher just know how to use it and have good stamina too, and when i say stamina i mean it in a sense that you don't "blow your load" so early

that's what most women want, a nice hard -- so they can just keep going ;-D

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A male reader, MyDestiny United States +, writes (2 February 2009):

MyDestiny agony aunt i understand your delema...i know how those things can effect someone , with rumors and everybody around your school kowing your business

so before you tell her go to a clinic..

and have a tlk to her before you show her.

tell her how you've been feeling insicure about it

and im sure she'll understand, and not spread your business around school..lets hope she's not that tipe oof person

and anyways a guys penis isn't suppose to be "that" big anyways

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009):

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ok i understand but im in college.. i know this might not happen but if i show her my penis and she becomes um a bitch about it if that hits college my life is screwed .. soo what should i do go to a clinic? if they say i aint fully done how can i tell her..

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A male reader, MyDestiny United States +, writes (1 February 2009):

MyDestiny agony aunt yeah i agree wiht "ellababesk" you should just be happy with your size and be more comfident of your "little bob" and be more confrotable and she'll be more comfortable with it too.

and if your still worried then follow "armymedic's" advice and go to a a clinic...you dont need to have a parent you i no how embarrassing it could be

so juss go and have it checked out

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009):

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dad is a no no never known him lol what is the other thing u said what is that

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A female reader, ellababesx United Kingdom +, writes (1 February 2009):

ellababesx agony auntThe longer you leave it, the more the girl will want to see your penis and may even start imagining to, meaning that she will have a image in her mind what she is exspecting to see.

Just pretend you ARE happy with your size and let her see her view of it, you never know, some girls are different and some like certain sizes different to others.

If she is put off you completely from the size of your 'little man', then shes not worth calling your girlfriend, especially if she cant accept you for who you are.

Good luck!

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A male reader, MyDestiny United States +, writes (1 February 2009):

MyDestiny agony aunt dont worry man people ask this kinda question every single minute on this site.. as a teen myself so did i..but you shouldn't worry your probably still growing, your still in your teens

the average male penis is 5 inches erect and in a couple years you could even get passed that

and for the foreskin i have it too, some grls actually like and sompe people say that guys with a foreskin are better in having sex they say that the feeling of the skin rubbing inside her pleasures her, and mine doesn't go all the way back eatherit goes like 3/4

so dont sweat it man, if she really likes you she'd be just as happy with whats attached to you

gudd luck, have funn

peace

(use protection)-dont be silly, wrap your willy-lol

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (1 February 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntTo be honest it is very difficult to say what is normal, I advise to speak to your Dad about it. If there is a problem there it is likely to be hereditary, so he will have had the same issues. If that doesn't help seek advise from your local Family planning/GU clinic, they're not all about free condoms and STIs.

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