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My girlfriend things it's wrong to have fantasies about me

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Question - (1 February 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 2 February 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *oonlightwolf13 writes:

ok so my girl thinks it is wrong of her to have fantacys about me but i think it is hot so how can i ask her to see it my way idk how it is wrong to think of the one you love the most

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A female reader, YuukiBear United States +, writes (2 February 2009):

YuukiBear agony auntWow... Hehe... Just tell her you like that she has fanasies k... Come on brother... You know she secretly likes it... Hehe.

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A male reader, moonlightwolf13 United States +, writes (2 February 2009):

moonlightwolf13 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

moonlightwolf13 agony auntthank you all i do understand now

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A male reader, lovelynightmare United States +, writes (2 February 2009):

lovelynightmare agony auntI think your girlfriend still finds you very attractive and pleasant, but it is probably a matter of her wanting to keep her boundaries she has set (probably in her mind if she hasn't told you) so she doesn't go certain places with a guy too fast. (anything sexual, pretty much)

Take it instead as a sign of how she respects you, I wouldn't doubt it if she was of a religious persuasion (like me) so try to focus on the emotional, social, and mental aspects of the relationship, which are beautiful as well.

Hope this helps,

lovelynightmare

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A female reader, ellababesx United Kingdom +, writes (1 February 2009):

ellababesx agony auntText her.

Tell her that you think its pretty hot being told that somebody is having fantacies about you.

She will feel more comfortable about doing it when she does and she knows that she can tell you about it if she wants to.

Good luck!

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (1 February 2009):

If she's not comfy with it then leave her to it. Just be there and let her relax gradually.

Good Luck!! xx

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