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Now why would she do that? Wow!

Tagged as: Cheating, Dating, The ex-factor, Three is a crowd, Troubled relationships<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (1 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 February 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *iss sweetheart writes:

I went over my boyfriend's house to spend a romantic night with him. Found some explicit messages, and long story short the chick he was cheating on me with came over and everything exploded. He claims I wasn't there for him and I didn't give him attention but the whole time I was there he was in la la land. Okay so the girl hugs me and says she is sorry she didn't know, and said I am here for you blah blah. So she writes me telling me how I deserve so much better. She even wanted to be my friend on Myspace then I found out days later she is talking to him again. Now is that messed up or what?

I told him and her, "Wow if she wanted you that bad she didn't have to be my friend lol." He is going to do the same crap to her say she is not doing this and that anyway so I am happy to give him to her lol.

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A female reader, miss sweetheart United States +, writes (2 February 2009):

miss sweetheart is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you so much Gina

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A female reader, miss sweetheart United States +, writes (1 February 2009):

miss sweetheart is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you so much ladies. Please believe I do cry a lot but I am now making light of the situation and being strong. I had got to a point where I was like he wronged me so I shouldn't think about the good times and than I found out that she was still talking to him after telling me she has no tolerance for men like him. I told her all the stuff he would say to me everything and she still wants to experience it. If he treats his ex like crap why do you think he will treat you better? That is what I do not understand. Also may I add she is ugly lol.I also hope my period shows up in Feb,the last night I was with him things kind of got out of hand and I really do not want to be pregnant by him.

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A female reader, ellababesx United Kingdom +, writes (1 February 2009):

ellababesx agony auntGina says it all really.

Not many people could of gone through what you did with a smile on your face. I think you're great for doing so and keep it up!

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