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writes:My very new boyfriend bought me an anal sex toy for my birthday only two weeks after we had met. Although I had told him that I have never had anal sex before and wouldn't mind finding out about it, I felt that it was way too rushed and made me feel like a bit of a slut receiving it.He was smiling very suggestively when he gave it to me which just put me right off the whole idea. I still have not taken it out of the packet... help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2015): that's a bit out there for 2 weeks in, did you ever take it our of the box?
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (1 February 2009):
 Help? Oh okay, if it is one of those dreaded plastic wrap things, you can get it open with a good sharp pair of scissors.
Oh you mean him giving something like this. It is an odd toy to give. It is not entirely not-done to give erotic toys but so soon? Has it been wirlwind relationship?
It is a bit much. Especially an anal toy but it depends on the relationship between the two of you.
Lets not forget that YOU told a brand new boyfriend of less then two weeks that you wouldn't mind having anal sex with him. Who exactly made things go at this speed?
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reader, ellababesx +, writes (1 February 2009):
 Well, you have the toy.
It's just up to you whether you use it or not.
If you feel you dont want to, then it's going to be a simple... dont.
He can't make you do something you dont want to.. But if he tries to, then your relationship with him isn't worth it.
Dont ever be pressured into doing something that you dont want to do.
Good luck!
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reader, MyDestiny  +, writes (1 February 2009):
 well maybe becuz you said -" I had told him that I have never had anal sex before and wouldn't mind finding out about it"- made him think it waz an ok gift to give since you said you wouldnt find finding more about it
and since he is now you boy friend he probably thought who else would give you such a gift but him..
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