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writes:My ex and i have been broken up for nearly 5 months now and i still really love him and miss him sooo much .. i still think about him alot and it just hurts soo much because i dont have contact or seee him often ...we were togther a year and a half .. he was amazing my best mate and the love of my life .. in the time weve been broken up ive seen him once at the pub and he was drinking with a mate .. when me and my bestie got there he basiaclly ditched his mate for us .. at first it was weird i hadnt seen him in ages and it felt stange seein him but we started talking and having fun like we did before we were dating i felt really comfortable amd i think he did too but then he was being really flirty and all touchy and kissed me a few times and stuff which was really confusing considering he said he was over me and that hes moved on and says we cant be mates but he told me he said we would always be graeat mates .. i still relly love him and with him being how he was that night has made my feeelings come back again .. i thought i would be feeling less attracted to him but im not i love him too much just to let go... i dont understand y he did it when he reons he has no feelings for me and its over.. it was a sudden break up i didnt see it coming he told me he loved me every day and said he was happy but yet he wasnt .. i belived him i trusted him .. y would he openly lie about loving me .. it hurts .. ive been hanging out with some guys ive met but i dont feeel attracted to them like i did to him .. i wish it could have worked .. i just dont know hwta to think anymore .. help
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reader, Griffo +, writes (1 February 2009):
 Hello,
Could you tell me exactly why he broke up with you? Do you know exactly why?
Usually If you haven't seen him for a while after the breakup things should be cooled down, for you I see that it hasent quite yet, which is ok. However he has cooled down. So what is it he's looking for? and if he says you are great mates does he actually follow that with actions and actually invite you to events. If he's going to say you are great mates he needs to maintain that as well. Otherwise there is no point in being mates (great mates)
I need to know what his reasons why you broke up, be honest, and I can tell you from a guys point of view.
Cheers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the answer greatly appreciated .. i still love him and i juts cant seem to forget about him cos i was madly inlove with him and really thought we had something .. i guess love is blind .. and failed to see he wasnt feeling the same .. to this day i still am unsure of to y he ended it except his feelings changed .. he told me i was his best mate and was the best girlfriend hes ever had because i did treat him well and gave him what ever he wanted and ddid care 4 him when he needed it and that im the best chick ... but y end it if i was that great he just doesnt make sense and is just messin with me cos of how he was towards me when he did see me
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