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writes:There is this guy that I met, he lives with my friend and I went over to their house. The guy asked for a kiss and I told him that I shouldnt cause I just got out of bad relationship. Then, we had more drinks and he tried again and this time I kissed him. He kept kissing me periodically throughout the night and took me to his room at the end but I said that I shouldnt be doing this and left. I really like him but he seems like a party boy and the farthest I go is kissing. I really had fun kissing him but I dont want to sleep with him. What should I say to him the next time he makes a move? I dont want him to be mad at me and I still want his attention and kisses lol I dont know what to do : /
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reader, The old Man? +, writes (1 February 2009):
 If you continue kissing him, you are only leading him on!
If you don't want things to go any farther, then just don't put yourself in that position.
If he is a party guy, he is looking for a party girl.
You cannot expect to keep kissing him, without him thinking that you have an interest in it going beyond that! If you keep going over and drinking, then letting loose of the kissing, before long, you'll drink enough and let loose of a whole lot more!
Don't dress as a sheep and go hang with wolves!
Joe~
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reader, ellababesx  +, writes (1 February 2009):
 Big alarm bells go off when the word 'pressured' comes to my head.If this guy pressures you again into having sex within a few days or something, you should start thinking again about this guy you may have feelings for. I mean, you love his effection or kisses, but that's not all he is offering. If he is offering something out of your range and you do not want to do it, then DONT. If he doesn't understand and gets angry with the way you feel then forget him, honey. He isn't worth the hassle if he doesn't feel the same way for you and wants to just use you like that.Good luck!
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