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writes:Hi,I have a bit of a strange question. Im sorry if this sounds awful. Last night whilst having sex we tryed a different position wth me bent over and I found it realy uncomfortable and i dont know if it was because he was going realy fast. it was a bit painfull right down the bottom of my back it just felt like there was loads of pressure being put on it. is this normal or could it just be because he was going to fast when he did slow down it didnt hurt.Im sorry if that sounded awful. Reply to this Question
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (1 February 2009):
 You probably mean a variation of doggy style. It is well known that this allows for deeper penetration. The angle might also be an issue. Try this, put a finger in your mouth and move it in and out. goes fine right? Now do the same with your finger pointing almost straight up. Better not with long nails.
Same down there. If it is pushing in wrong it might bump against parts of your insides that like to be bumped.
So yes, normal in that if you do it wrong, sex can hurt. If he don't get it, bent it double.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi,
No it definatly wasnt anal. neither of us are in to that. it was only the second time we tryed it. i am a small person he is a lot taller and bigger than me maybe that has something to do with it. i should have said i wasnt comfortable because theres no way he would have me doing something i didnt want to do he isnt like that i cant expect him to read my mind lol. i'll just have to ask him to go slower next time and see if that helps.
Thanks for the answers xx
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reader, SugarCookie  +, writes (1 February 2009):
There is a chance that he was hitting you cervix and it was shooting pain in you back. That position allows him to go in deeper so try lowering your butt closer to the bed it will make it not so deep or talk to him and have him try moving and say if you like it or not you will find something in that position that works Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): Presume you mean doggy style? This position increases penetration but shouldn't really hurt more than say the missionary.
Hope this doesn't offend or making you out to be stupid but he wasn't trying anal was he?
I hope you told him he was hurting you and to take it easy if you do it again? It's your body and you should only do what you are happy with.
No question is awful if something bothers a person.
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