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30-35,
*yewatson
writes:Hello I have a little problem..Well I have an Idea what I am going to do about this problem but I am fully not aware of what I am fully doing.So heres the story. I am currently dating a girl. I'm not for all of the lovey stuff and I am in highschool and I want nothing thats too serious. I want to be able to work on school and date at the same time but not feel stressed out. Now my problem.. I feel like I am just a really close friend to this girl. We talk like friends. I have held her hand but it really doesn't feel that special. I have thought of kissing her but its too awkward.. I liked the girl but I feel as if not in that way. My other problem, I am crushing hardcore on this other girl. She was single and she did tell me that she liked me. She knew I was dating the other girl so she started dating this other guy. I haven't told her how much I like her. I felt like I was in the wrong place at the wrong time. Now my gf, I have really been trying to connect with her but, its not so successful. I don't know how she feels about me. I am cute and I don't want to sound stuck up but I feel like one of those types who can get girls hooked on me. So its usually a messy break up. I really feel like friends with my girlfriend. I haven't kissed her but the thought is kinda awkward.Heres how I thought of dealing with it. I am going to tell my girlfriend how I feel. Tell her I think that I am more of a friend to her then a boyfriend. I really hope she doesn't take it that hard. =( The other girl, its only fair that I tell her how I feel. I know that shes going out with this other guy but I am really crushing on her. I want to have a chance. I know she feels the same way about me. My heart hurt and I know it sounds cheesy but it truly hurt inside to see that she wanted to date this other guy. She has noticed it too but didn't know it was about her. I am wanting to tell her.Now my Question is What do you think I should do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): I agree. Talk to them both, tell the girlfriend that you only really see her as a friend, tell the crush you like her... But, don't expect a lot to happen because if the crush really likes this other guy, she's not going to just leave him so she can be with you instead. You may have to move on, or just give it sometime to see how things play out with the crush.
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