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female
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anonymous
writes:I'm in love. I've been with this boy about 4 months and i'm sure its the real deal. The only thing is i've done alot to make this work including fighting with my mom..[she doesn't approve of him] why? because of his ways. we fight, break up and then make up ..and i admit it; he's a thug. but i'm a smart and mature girl i know what i got myself into when i met him. anyway, although my friends don't like him much, i get along great with his boys. they're like my older brothers and last night they told me he doesn't deserve a girl like me. that i can do so much better that he's not only an asshole to me but to his friends as well and that i'm only wasting my time because he won't change. the advice i've been getting is to let him go but i can't. i'm still too hopeful and if i give up i want to give up knowing i did all i could. what can i do to help him realize that if he keeps acting this way not only is he going to lose me but his friends as well? Reply to this Question
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (3 February 2009):
 Oh sweetheart you have fallen into the old cliché. You cannot change someone who doesn't want to change, I fear his friends and your mum are probably right. You can do and deserve better than a guy who acts like that.
By telling him about it will just end up with him sulking!
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