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writes: im so depressed!!! i feel lonely and miserable all the time and i really want a girl friend.. ive never had one in my whole life...im 14, even though my parents dont allow me to have a social life or a girlfiend..and even though im a little insecure about my penis size i still want to have a girl friend,.. i have alot of friends, female ones too and i get along great with them..we flirt alot but i dont know why they dont ask me out or anything.. what should i do???
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reader, Relax1234  +, writes (11 September 2010):
Dude if u have the confidence to start flirting with girls then u should be able to ask them out to a movie or something, say it's nothin serious then kiss them in the movie and say "I really like you now, and I would like to start sumthin serious" and the reason the girls are not asking u out is coz they're waiting for you to ask them out. Plus you might aswell ask em out coz if you've never had a girl then you've got nothin to lose. Just gogogo for it and you'll thank me!!!! Oh and one more thing: just relax!
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reader, siahjo1  +, writes (17 March 2010):
Be nice to her try hang out with her a bit more get a bit more closer with her and most girls dont have the guts to ask out the guy usualy the guy have to ask them out.
Good luck bro best of luck Y0u can do it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2009): Look just be friends for a bit you know? Get to know her and be nice and then ask her out and i'm sure she will say yes. I feel its just dumb to ask someone out if you don't even know them well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2009): Girls prefer the boys to ask them trust me. Just go for it 9 times out of 10 they will say yes if you know them.=)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question yeha ive decided im going to ask her out
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2009): Scared? Yeah... I've been there. terrified, actually. But I summon the curage by knowing how much I'll regret not asking her out. If she says no, well then I'm even a little happy, because I did something I was afraid to do. Go for it man, I'm rootin for ya.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question oh o.k, ill go out on a limb and juss ask the grl im really crushing on, out on a date... what ever she says no she says no, she says yes then im happy.. im juss really scared to
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): "It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all." This is designed to make break-ups better, but what about those who have never loved? I understand the pain you are going through, i really do. You have to go out there and put everything on the line. Sure, some of 'em will knock you down on the ground, but if you do it enough, you'll find someone who you really love, and who loves you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question"kinky boots" you're probably right cuz the girls I'm around I could totally see them do that.. they like the guy to ask them out instead of just asking themselves. It's really hard.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question yeah maybe i should talk to her.. but her still having a boyfriend still bothers me..
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reader, KiaGrace  +, writes (1 February 2009):
 Well it sounds like this girl may like you too.It might not be worth risking your friendshipover, but if you really wanna know, just talk to herand start the sentence with, 'i dont wanna ruin our friendship but....' or, 'i dont want to make things awkward between us, but...' and hopefully, everything will work out great!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell see i nmy situation there's this girl i really like to death but she has a boyfriend and we're really close friends...and teh thing is mean while she's always flirting with me and so im comfused
i dont understand her mixed signals..and i dont know how she really feels, and if i ask her and she says no, i dont wnat to ruin our great friendship over it...
thxz to ery body whose answered so far
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): Well i am 14, single and understand what you mean it can get lonely. But as a 14 year old i no that most girls wait for the boy to ask the girl out, so then she know if they really like her. I no it sound crazy but it is true! So if you get to no a girl that you like ask her out on a date or something. What the worst that can happen?I hope i have helped you.Good Luck! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): Well i am 14 and have had a boy friend and stuff and it isn't that important. But, as i am the same age as you and no what you mean, but we believe(us girls) that a boy should always ask the girl out as the girl then knows they mean it. I know it sounds crazy but its true! So if you like someone ask them out. Whats the worst that can happen?I hope i've helped you :) Good Luck!
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reader, KiaGrace +, writes (1 February 2009):
Don't feel depressed, your only fourteen!You have your whole life ahead of you!If your starting to be interested in girlsand want to have a girlfriend, then I suggestyou make a move, some girls aren't into the whole'asking the boy out' ordeal. Sometimes our thinking is,'well if he likes ME, he will ask ME out'Ask a girl your interested in to go to a movie or something, and see wherethat takes you! Best of luck,any other problemsmessage me.
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