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writes:Okay long story short, i met a boy 'Andrew' at school.we went out for about a week in yr 9 but broke up mutually because we both weren't ready.After the break up we became closer and spoke more often, and i always remembered the feeling i felt when we first held hands.2 years later My Deb was coming up and i asked him to go with me, we ended up going out.he changed my life and made me so happy, but i was emotionally unstable through the time we went out, i would cut myself and i was a complete mess, so i started depending on him allot, i became to clingy.because Andrew was not that good at communication he broke up with me 3 days before out 9 months.I was devastated and ended up cutting myself, his mum found out and she forbade us to go out again.it's been about 2 months now since we broke upwe still love each other very much and if we are ever at a party together we always end up in each others arms. about 2 weeks ago we had sex and it felt amazing and i remembered how it used to feel like.the problem is i really want him back, i love him so much and i've told him that but his parents wont allow it and he also has a trust issues he doesn't know if he can trust himself to do the right thing and trust me not to cut myself again.i don't know what to do, and i've told him that i'll never cut again because i've been through councelling and i'm not a mess like i used to be, i've found my independence and i just want another chance.we always find each other, every time we're together we end up kissing and staring into each others eyes, the feelings are still there and they are still strong... what should i do?i starts school 2moro it's my last year and i go to the same school as Andrew we have 3 classes together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHmm, well these last 2 days at school have been really emotionally exhausting.I'm in year 12 now so it makes it alot harder seeing as he's in all my classes too.basicaly today i made it clear to him that if he wanted to try being just friend then he'd have to put the effort into it too. and so were gonan try the friendship thing and see how that goes, but knowing him he'll end up making it a bit more than friends and then it'll make it hard on me again.also today after school i gave him a sketch i drew of him, i was going to give it to him on Valentines but i didnt really care as long as he got it...i really do hope we get back together and i believe one day we willbut for no i don't want anyone else and if he wants to coe back i'mm happy to accept
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (3 February 2009):
 I think no matter what anyone says here you guys will end up together! Just keep your word about the self-harm so he trusts you and I would not spend time together with his Mum.
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