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writes:ok, I have been aware that I am lesbien for a couple of years now. I am still not out the 'closet' or anything, but recently there has been this guy who I have spent alot of time with. I really like him, and want to be with him, but am not attracted to him (due to me being a lesbien). But I think im falling in love? What should I do? Becuase I think about girls all the time, but when im with him, I want to be with him.. help.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): well my advice doesnt matter much but id like to belive that you can be with the guy because im in the same problem im the guy and a lesbian friend is strating to fall for me and she is confused
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): I think you're straight and got 'caught' up in lesbianism. It's almost like a fad now. Next thing you know a gay guy and lesbian will fall in love;)When you feel the pull of love, there's no stopping it--lucky you:)
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (1 February 2009):
 You are not attracted to him, but want to be with him.
Exactly what do you mean attraction means anyway?
In what way do you want to be with him. Playing darts in a bar, talking about girls or be with him in the romantic meaning?
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (1 February 2009):
 then be with him..if you feel so strongly(love) about him then be with him... see thats the thing people like different things and as you grow up they change...
you could be bi..
so go ahead and explore..and see how it goes
gudd luck
peace
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reader, Tattyana  +, writes (1 February 2009):
 You are still very young and still finding your way as woman and a sexual being. You say you don't fancy him but clearly are attracted to his personality. Are you sure you could not feel anything else?
Another female is very easy to relate to and women are the fairer sex, lets face it, but it may be a bit early for you to dismiss any feelings you may have for someone of the opposit sex. Keep an open mind and enjoy yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): You're bi.
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