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*eEds hElP!!!!
writes:ok so i have this huge problem and i dont know how to solve it. . my boyfriend has a myyearbook i hate the fact he does because there always seems to be a bunch of girls all up on him and he tells me its his friends and i believe him but i do not trust all those girls he talks to them and im quite sure he is not cheating on me but i just dont want him to have a myyearbook anymore girls send me messages asking me if im his girlfreind which to me is kinda of disturbing how can i tell him that i want him to delete his myyearbook without sounding untrustworthy? Reply to this Question
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (1 February 2009):
 By making him delete the account shows your lack of trust if girls are e-mailing you about him does that mean you have an account too? If so will you be deleting your account also?If you trust him, give him a chance!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 February 2009):
You say you trust him and that you trust he won't do anything... But you are not willing to let him prove this to you.
It's not nice for you I know but demanding he deletes the whole thing is a bit drastic and makes it sound very much like the problem is all yours and not his.
Just talk to him and say you are sick of dealing with these girls and getting harassed by them. Ask him not to speak to any girls who flirt with him and ask him to reassure you a bit as it's in your face all the time.
Good Luck!! xx
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