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anonymous
writes:Well hi, this is my story.. The man i'm dating now has been married, i had a feeling he might be but thought it was possible. Working for a family business i found a lot information out from my boss, his this man i'm dating's brother-in-law his sisters husbands brother. The guy i'm seeing told me about his ex-wife and so did everyone else at least 6 different people, everyone had their own idea and thought on why she felt. For many nights i could not sleep dreaming of her and seeing her standing over my bed laughing at me. I decided that i was going to find her no matter how long it later, no matter how huge the world might seem.. I know they, my boyfriend and his ex-wife have friends over seas in nz, so i started there, i add one of her, the ex-wife, friends on facebook as a friend so i could go through her friend list, and i found the ex-wife there, i sent her a message along with my email address 3 days later she replied. She asked me who i was and why i wanted to talk to her. I replied and asked her everything that was bothering me. She asked me not to tell anyone as she did not want any extra talk about her here in sa, which is understandable. She said i can always write to her and ask her for help no matter how hard it may seem. I have not spoken to her ever since the begining of march. My boyfriend has become very busy with his business and does not have much time for me as he did. I'm afraid i might have open a door with his ex-wife and he must have found out some how. He told me i have nothing to say to her i contacted her before he told me that... I want to tell him i spoke to her but just dont know how, would it be wise to tell him or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): most men freak out when their ex and current g/f become close or even friends. why? men do not want the women to swop stories, and discuss them. also, men would normally lay blame at the ex, saying that it was the ex's fault the relationship broke, but when you swop info, the truth comes out.my friends hubby told her all bad things about his ex, later on the both women had a somewhat decent relationship, they found that he actually was their common problem. sometimes it is an unwanted open door, but necessary to answer bothering and nagging doubts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009): Telling him would not be a good idea. All you will do is cause a whole lot of trouble for yourself, if not end up getting kicked out. If you plan to hold on to this guy, keep this to yourself, and I would also stop communicating with his ex. She could tell you anything just to get back at her ex...your guy.
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