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anonymous
writes:I'm seeing this guy and his friend and me have a spark between us. He's been texting me even though he has a girlfriend, who he's said he'll finish with to be with me when the timing is right. I like both of them but I like the guy with the girlfriend more. I just feel a stronger physical connection to him. I don't know what to do? I told him to stop texting me but I don't feel like I'm following my heart? help?
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reader, Neboraic  +, writes (7 April 2009):
I never believe people when they say "timing is right". There is no right time to break up with someone. Furthermore, this poor girl has extended time with the boyfriend who doesnt want her. Both of you should follow your hearts while breaking the hearts of the other two. Its like an injection, it may hurt but its the right decision in the long run.
If you truly didnt feel like following your heart then you would have written a post about the boy who wont stop texting you. You want him, you should go for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009): If you like him more and are sure he's broken up with his gf, then may as well choose him. But be careful not to get involved with the guy of he remains with his girl.
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