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I am a terrible flirt! Help me!

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Question - (6 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok well, recently, I split up with my girlfriend of about three years. This has happened before in the past with us, but this time It's most likely for good, which is alright.

However, I work with another girl who I really like and have sort of been talking to at work sometimes. She's really nice and I want to get to know her and take her out sometime, but I am god awful when it comes to hitting on a girl.

I suffer from severe anxiety and depression, which makes it really difficult to talk to new people, especially ones that I am interested in. I'm just not sure how I should deal with the situation because aside from that, we are six years apart (She is 24) and on opposite ends of the spectrum financially, and most of the time I talk to her I am really nervous and dismissive in conversation. Please help!

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A female reader, CathMackenly United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2009):

Just be confident! thats the secret to flirting, be yourself and say what you mean, dont play games with her or anything like that (:

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