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writes: I'm confused about a guy i like.I saw him tonight,i hadnt seen him for about a year,as i havent been to the place where i used to see him regularly that much.I saw him in a pub at first tonight.We looked at each other and smiled,but we didnt talk to each other.He left to go to the club i met him in and used to see him in,and i went there later so i saw him again.He asked me if i was working and asked me where i am living at the moment.He also mentioned that he hadnt seen me for a long time.He left very early though,and i said it was a shame he wasnt staying.He said have i annoyed you by saying i'm leaving,and i said no and i was glad to see him again.And he said he was glad to see me again too.He asked me what i was doing for the rest of the night,and i said i was staying there,which is why i wanted him to stay too.I asked him if he wanted to meet up again,and he said he might do or he might not.He didnt give me his number,although i have an old mobile phone number of his.Not sure if its still the same number.I went back over to sit with my uncle and his friend after that.I was out with them.My uncle's friend said that while i was stood with the other guy,he kept looking at my uncle's friend and giving him " daggers ".Me and my uncle arent sure if my uncle's friend was being paranoid though,or that he felt jealous,as my uncle's friend likes me too.I noticed him look around sometimes,but couldnt see if he was looking at my uncle's friend or not.If he was giving him " daggers ",maybe he thought my uncle's friend was my boyfriend or something.Although,he did ask me who he was,and i told him he was just a friend.I hope i will see him again.The problem is,i dont get to go out much,as i dont have many friends who i regularly hang around with.I could go out with my uncle again,but i dont like being with him all the time.Not meaning to offend him.It would just be good to go with other people sometimes.What do you think of this,and what should i do next ?.I am 25,by the way,and he is nearly 27.
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reader, OSCARS MUMMY  +, writes (13 April 2009):
 next time you go out and you see this guy go over and explain that you like him and give him your number, explain that your friends are busy thats why you are out with your uncle and his friend - lay it out straight for him so he knows the full situation. That way he will have your number, he knows its just your uncles friend and he will ring you if he wants you - maybe he is scared to come over if you are with other guys. So, go out with you uncle until you see this guy and tell him straight - give him your number and good luck!! Guys are slow sometimes and need a push in the right direction x
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