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*ndy12345
writes:If you have been in a relationship with a girl for quite along time and they say after a while that they only see you as a friend and don't have any desire to be intimate with you, what are the possible reasons for this? Is there any chance that if you just be good friends with her she may go back on her words... or is it incredibly unlikely? Reply to this Question
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reader, andy12345 +, writes (7 April 2009):
andy12345 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe sed she didnt know what caused it, it just happened, she sed she wasnt bored of me she just stopped seeing me as anything more than a friend.
I know theres not alot i can do to change her mind, just what are my best options?
Probably the worst way to get let down really ha :(
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reader, Mariela  +, writes (7 April 2009):
 Us girls tempt to change our minds on things really fast.... So maybe she is just bored or she has someone new in her life....Or it could also be that she liked you but she just wanted to try you and see if it worked out,,,But most of the time you wont no what change her mind, so might as well ask her to get it over and you can move on,,,, Your young you can find another girl...
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reader, bOy CrAzY;} +, writes (7 April 2009):
Well sometimes girls (no offence really) we get bored and want to try new things.....but that's just one of the most that I've heard about...but dude honestly there is multiple reasons about why......so my advice just ask her and see why from her cause thats ur best chance!
Good luck to y'all
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reader, cold_as_ice17 +, writes (6 April 2009):
 Coming from my experience with my ex (I was the one who didnt feel the same way anymore), it is unlikely that once your girl has changed her mind about how she feels about you she will go back. My boyfriend and I broke up, and we tried staying as friends but he was too pushy about getting back together or telling me he still loved me. That just pushed me away completely because i just wanted to stay friends. So if you do want to try it out as friends, don't be too pushy about getting back together or showing strong emotions. you might push her farther away.
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