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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hello.... Well here it is, my boyfriend has gone all cold...... He is not like he use to be 7 months ago. He does not say he misses me like he use to, randomly in the day he send a text message like, i miss you my angel.. Or he would phone just to say hi... We use to go out every Tuesday and Thursday night and have an outing day on Saturdays or Sundays.. I asked him the other day if i did something wrong cause he is not 'treating' me the same as he use to.. He says he is just a bit stressed and that it will go away soon enough, i really want to help him through his stressed time but she shuts down, and pulls back, forgets about the whole world... I just want to know if there is anything i can do to show him i'm right here when he needs me...
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reader, cloudysunshine +, writes (6 April 2009):
I wouldn't push him too much, just be there for him :) there's nothing worse than feeling like someones being cold with you, but give him some space and hopefully he'll realise you're there to help and he doesn't have to deal with things alone :) good luck!
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