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writes:Hi, just wondering if anyone has ever felt like this. I was with my boyfriend for five years from the age of 15, we broke up five months, I liked a guy friend of mine a lot, but nothing came of it and he let me down. I dated recently and the guy seemed nice but basically used me for sex. I've recently developed this fear of becoming a lesbian, think its called hocd, but its made worse by the fact I don't particularly feel attracted to anyone atm. I feel like a completely different person, but at the same time, I have a belief that I will feel myself again, it will just take time. Has anyone ever felt like this? I'm 21 and want to be living life to the full, but I just feel anxious and depressed a lot of the time. Help!
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reader, cloudysunshine +, writes (10 April 2009):
cloudysunshine is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx, im on medication atm, its not that i'm not sure, i've only ever gone out with boys, and I have a genuine fear of that changing, i know that sounds silly, but its just not something I would want to do. At the same time, I'm just bit off men atm thanx 4 your advice :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): I don't want to sound like a medical commercial but first things first. Talk to your doctor and see of he can prescribe anything for the depression and anxiety.Next if your not sure of your sexuality for right now just let yourself be attracted to whoever you feel attracted to. Why limit yourself to one gender? If you feel attracted to a man, go for it. If it happens to be a women, why let that stop you?Just try to let go and enjoy your life right now.Hope I helped=]
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