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writes:Im 15 years old and never had a boyfriend or been kissed. I think maybe it cause im not that skinny or not that pretty. Some people laugh at me cause I've never had a bf. All my friends have had one. I just don't no what to think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): I am just like you and I feel pretty much the same exact way. I have asked guys out but they always say no
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009): I didn't get my first boyfriend until I was 23 years old. It wasn't because I was ugly; a lot of people have told me how beautiful I am, but in the end it didn't matter. My first relationship didn't last long because I had low self-esteem and was always judging myself and thinking he could do better. It's without a doubt that I never attracted a guy before then because they could sense my self-consciousness, and no one is attracted to that.You are very young, and you should use this time to learn to love yourself for who you are. As soon as you do that, I am sure you'll have no problem getting a boyfriend, but by then you'll be so happy that you wont care either way.
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (6 April 2009):
 First off i wont be because of your looks, everyone is a gem in someone elses eye.
Second off thinking like this may be the factor, men and women love confidence in a partner. If they know their partner is strong and confident that is sexy to alot of people. I know its easy to criticise yourself, but just look at yourself and think more positivly it does help and the boys will love it. Nobody wants a girl who is constanly judging herself.
Third dont date jsut because your friends are, your still young and you will find that someone soon. Enjoy your youth and freedom, that person will come when the time is right
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