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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:This guy and I have been seeing each other for over a month. We are both in college and established that we were dating but he still doesn't call me his girlfriend. I only saw him twice last week but we talked over the phone about every other day. I wanted to hang out with him over the weekend but it couldn't work out. He called me at midnight on Friday and asked if I wanted to come party with him but I was too tired and sleepy. So I texted him sat morning and asked if he wanted to hang out but he called and said he was going into the city with the boys all day and he would be back Sunday afternoon and he would call me later. I figured on Sunday he will be doing homework and will be busy. But now its Monday and still no call or text and its not the first time this has happened. I want to talk to him about the status of our relationship and when he says he will call, he better call and not leave me hanging. I want to send him a text and say that since we haven't seen each other in like a week, we should get dinner or something tonight but will this be too demanding of him? I mean I know he wants his time with the boys and its a "guy thing" not to call when they say they will, but it really sucks when he puts his friends first. Am I too clingy?
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reader, Neboraic  +, writes (7 April 2009):
its not too clingy, its the usual amount of clingyness that girls apply, its totally normal. Let him know the score
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (6 April 2009):
Well if you are just "seeing each other" every now and then then not talking a lot is going to be part of that.
It sounds like you want more, but to be honest, I think if he wanted more then he would be making more effort because he would WANT to be in touch with you more.
It is not just a "guy thing" to say they will call and then not. It's an idiot thing.
I think you are going to be hurt if you want more from this guy so I think you need to tell him you are not happy, and if he can't grow up and deal with a girlfriend right now then you are just going to have to let him go.
Be strong and don't settle for a second class relationship. You are better than that!
Good Luck!! xx
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