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writes:Is my ex bf just playing games with me?I broke up with him about a month ago because he was treating me really badly and showed no respect for me what so ever. It took me a few attempts to go through with it (as he would always change my mind) but I eventually stood my ground. Anyway, a few days after we broke up he said he had faith that we would be together again one day. The following day he tells me he has a new gf!! Then, he doesnt talk to me for a bit, and I dont contact him (I have never been the one to contact him after the break up, hes always been contacting me, even tho I tried to stop him, through deleting him off msn, facebook etc...he can contact my phone still tho). He contacted me again randomly and was being all nice, then suddenly he would turn cruel and nasty and tell me ill never get another bf, no1 better then him will ever come along etc. then he will sudenly change and be mr nice guy, signing his messages with kisses and hugs etc. He will be acting like he wants me back, then out of the blue he will act like hes got 1000 girls lined up as his bedroom door. I dont get why he is doing this....why cant he just leave me alone? hes making it hard to move on. He hurt me so bad, and he still is. I just want it to stop. I would love to be able to be friends with him, but i dont think that is possible because as soon as i let myself be vunerable to him, he turns around and shoves it right back in my face. I cant trust him. One minute hes mr nice, the next hes calling me names and putting me down. By the way, we are both 20 years old.
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reader, Answerthis  +, writes (6 April 2009):
This dude sounds bi-polar... It sounds like he is achieving exactly what he set out to do: "hes making it hard to move on."
He probably still wants you, (you breaking up with him). He wants you to either be jealous (the 1000 girls lining up *cough whatever*), or to miss him/remember him fondly (Mr Nice guy), both for the same reason: to get you back. Trying to convince you that you won't get anyone else/better is part of this.
Summary: Playing games? Yes. Worth it? No.
Good luck!
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