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female
age
36-40,
*loudysunshine
writes: Hi, just wondering if anyone has ever felt like this. I was with my boyfriend for five years from the age of 15, we broke up five months, I liked a guy friend of mine a lot, but nothing came of it and he let me down. I dated recently and the guy seemed nice but basically used me for sex. I've recently developed this fear of becoming a lesbian, think its called hocd, but its made worse by the fact I don't particularly feel attracted to anyone atm. I feel like a completely different person, but at the same time, I have a belief that I will feel myself again, it will just take time. Has anyone ever felt like this? I'm 21 and want to be living life to the full, but I just feel anxious and depressed a lot of the time. Help!
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reader, JockoJ +, writes (10 April 2009):
Hey, I'm 30 and want to be living life to the fullest too. Just work hard, have fun, don't pass up opportunities.
I've had periods where I haven't liked anyone either, then I met someone awesome.
Don't be worried about being a lesbian. If you were a lesbian you'd like it and wouldn't care.
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