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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been friends with a girl from school for about a year now and things have been going pretty well. Right now, I am a student whilst she is in full time work. Our age gap is very close and we often meet for a catch up as we live close to each other too. She often has problems at work etc so she tended to ask to meet up more often than I do. In my opinion, I don't think I am a fab help but I allow her to express her anger and cheer her up so maybe I am lol! Besides discussing work, we have fun together doing other stuffs :) All this time we spend together makes me think our friendship is pretty strong. However, tonight, when I sent her a text inviting her round, she didn't reply in any form, and when I called her eventually, she just said no and that she couldn't be bothered to reply me. Should I assume that she won't be coming or is it a sign that our friendship isn't as strong as I feel? Am I being daft for being annoyed over getting no reply and am I treating a friend like a close relation? Please help.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (6 April 2009):
Yes you right in being annoyed.
But remember she could just be having a bad day or something.
Give her a chance to contact you again and see if she apologises. Or makes a bit more effort.
If she doesn't then you just have to write her off as an oddball and get on with your life.
Good Luck!! xx
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