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writes:I need everyones opinion here to just to see if I'm completely out of line and off base.Me and my boyfriend just had a fight on Friday, and now its a Sunday. I worked this evening, and he texted me asking me when I started. I told him, and then he asked when I would be coming home. I told him. So I get home, and I thought all was well. Until I noticed the pictures of me were removed from their original spot, and hidden on the floor. Also, the picture of us together is on the floor. My make up is in the wrong place. However, the large 11 by 14 picture on the wall of the hallway is still up. I confronted my boyfriend saying why they were gone. He said he didn't know at all. I got upset and he finally told me that he was pissed off at me becuase he sent me a text, and i didn't get it so I didn't reply to him for about 3 hours. Then, I went for his phone and he grabbed it away from me. So I thought he was hiding something. I got more upset. He repeatedly told me that no one was here, he was a lone all night, no one was here. But I question him. And I automatically jump to the worst conclusion. I asked to see his texts and he said no. It shouldn't have to come to that, you need to trust me. I told him that all the evidence of a woman living there were gone. He said thats absurd. Theres candles on the TV, and dried roses. And your shoes are right there. The bathroom is full of womans products. Cmon. I don't know what to do...I think he's lying but I'm jumping to the wrong conclusions. Does this sound fishy? That something was up? Or is this really just innocent... Please help me.
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reader, rzrlinz +, writes (6 April 2009):
rzrlinz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, the pictures were right by where he was sitting. I'm not sure how to go about this, because Ireally have nothing togo on. Just because the pictures were down doesn't mean that he's cheating on me..I have decided to just let it go and not stress about something that I can't control...if something really is going on behind my back it will surface eventually.
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (6 April 2009):
 As Gina said, it depends on whether or not he was still mad at the big argument on Friday. Were the photos on the floor easily seen by others? Like, if someone comes in, will they easily see those on the floor? Were they close to where he usually sits or lounge around? If they are, it is very possible that he just did not want to "see" you when he was somewhat "sulking". Your makeup in a different position could also be coincidental, i.e. he was messing them up (or cleaning the counter top) on purpose (!) and then thought better of it (as it would get him into trouble with you later lol)
However, not wanting you to look at his phone does sound a bit off. If there's nothing to hide, he would give it to you to make a point. But not showing it to you could also mean that he wants to be trusted without having to prove it to you.
But if your suspicion is based on more than just this one instance, you know better than us whether something is up with him.
Hope your situation will be resolved soon.
Cat
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009): It is possible.. i don't know i just wanted to say , that maybe he turned the one larger one over when he didn't have time to run around and clean the rest of them up... it is fishy behaviour. Though i'd rather look on the brightside. give him the benefit of the doubt and keep a close eye on him.
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reader, rzrlinz +, writes (6 April 2009):
rzrlinz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, its of the both of us, a couple picture.
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