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*herrypop
writes:I am 28 years old. I lost my virginity almost 2 years ago with a friend I've known for a number of years, and we've met up for occasional sex ever since. I became a member of this site to get some advice.Here's my situation:When we recently had sex, I started him off by giving him head, which is one of his favorite things for me to do to him. However, when I did it this time, he was very soft, and he wouldn't get hard. So I used my hand for a little while, and I could feel him get a little hard, but as soon as I started sucking on it, it got back soft, and I didn't know why. I didn't do anything different that I haven't done before. After a few more minutes of him not getting hard, he just got up and laid me down and gave me head (which felt amazing). After giving me head, he was hard and we had really great sex. Well, it was for me. I asked him if it was good 4 him, and he said it was great, but the limp dick situation still bothered me....Did I do something wrong? Was he not just turned on by the head?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009): It happens sometimes. Maybe he is taking medications or had too much to drink, or like the previous poster said, he could've just been having a bad day!
See if it happens the next time, and ask him what he has been doing different...it could even be street drugs (like speed) that could cause it. But hey! Look at the bright side...it all worked out in the end! You both had great sex!
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reader, ErinPatterson +, writes (6 April 2009):
 Maybe he had a bad day..I wouldnt be overly concerned...
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