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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been really confused recently. I am 20 years old and engaged to a wonderful person that treats me great. But, before we got together or even hung out I was sorta on and off with this one guy for a couple years. we were never official but he would leave me thinking and so curious all the time. when we kiss sparks fly and you can just feel it. well i would get mad at him because i wouldn't hear from him for long periods of times. well my current fiance before we got together it was totally fucked up. I was walked all over. and just looked right past. he started to date one of my best friends and she lied about it the whole time. well after that crashed and burned i remained friends with them both and tried things again with him. i was getting tired of waiting for him so i for gave up and outta the blue ran into this other guy and started hanging out again and my fiance found out and begged for me to forgive him and that he was dumb etc. etc. and a year later he pops the questions and we are still going strong planning a wedding for next year. but what the main question is what should i do about this other person. they are in my thoughts all the time. lil things i do or music i hear he pops into my head instantly. and tonight it has alot. I feel like im missing something and with him i will never know what could have been and the feelings i get just to run into him are insane. like butterflys that will never die. what should i do!
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